amour propre

Everyone takes themselves too seriously. Seriously,people are too damn sensitive sometimes.Some would say  “oh, i deserve to be respected!” Let me tell you this, no you don’t. You are not entitled to anything from anyone.Why? Because you make your own respect. Some people are too sensitive about others giving insulting comments.Then they try to fight back. They get all stressed out and mad whenever they see the person or someone brings it up. I mean don’t you see what they are trying to do to you? Don’t you see how weak you are to be offended by a person who is so small that he/she actually has the audacity to try to offend you? . Let me tell you one secret,he/she insulted you ,yes, but the second he/she shows that he/she wants to insult you is the second he/she loses all of his/her credibility. Why worry about the opinion of someone who is trying to hurt you? He/she don't matter. People don't matter. I just hate seeing people get hurt so easily when this reality is so glaringly obvious. They’re just words with bad intentions. You choose to be hurt by those intentions because of your ego.If there is anything I can tell you today is that,never to rely on other people. Because when their grounds falls apart,you fall down with them because you never put in the effort to build your own foundation in the first place. Don’t rely on them to tell you who you are because they are unreliable,insecure and out of your control. They are not your rock. What you choose to keep you grounded cannot be something that rests on unstable ground.

Know yourself. Respect yourself. Depend on you.

 That is all.