put in some efforts aye.

not sorry to say this but,if you stop trying just because you finally have that someone,you're one f up man.If you are not consistent in your pursuit,then you are one insincere bastard. Now now,relationship aren't going to work if she is fighting alone. That is just not how a freaking relationship works.You don't go around pursuing her ,and as soon as you've got your prize,you throw it away.I detest this type of people.I have zero tolerance for man who are inconsiderate .Babe,there comes a point in your life,you figured there are a handful of people who barely put effort into things,and there are some you can actually stand. Then there’s the rest who try to manipulate you, and the ones who use you. Let me tell you something,darling , if you decide to be involve with people who doesn't put the same effort into the relationship as you do,you are screwed,he's on thin ice babe. You are nobody’s back up, distraction, or “when he feels like it”.
Put an end to these senseless circles already.

Let's talk about effort. To be frank,I don't fancy being in a relationship where I have to depend on that certain someone.Never in my whole life,I wish for someone to come to my life to carry me.I am the type of person who want to walk with you,not for you to carry me.Because I believe ,for a relationship to work,efforts from both is essential. I remember one time,a dear friend of mine told me,the greatest gift you could ever give someone is your effort and time,even just a mite.

Have your mother ever told you that she doesn't want anything  from you ? That all she wants is for you to make her proud,doing whatever you love.That is all she ever wants. Have you ever wonder why she asked you to do so,even if you know it doesn't really benefit her .

That's the idea,a mother doesn't want anything from you,all she ever wanted is your effort. When you love someone that much,you don't expect them to give you anything in return,you don't go around telling them to make you happy,that'd be a selfish thing to do.Instead,you want them to be happy.Your happiness is when you see that certain someone doing what he loves and is full of joy.

Goodnight love.Wait,its almost 5,good morning then.